Not teaching your kids basic life skills to keep them dependent
Taking away someones personal belongings, or selling them without permission. My mom would go through my room and trash or sell everything while I was at school. She's sold or thrown away my deceased dad's stuff, toys, clothes, pets, etc... and act like I shouldn't be upset. My sister does this as well.
Comparing one child to another,cousin or friends. Why can’t you be more like them. It’s so toxic.
My favorite type that I seem to gravitate toward.
Telling people their emotional response is invalid or they shouldn't feel a certain way.
By all the pantheons, I always find people that love pushing that into my brain, from parents to dating.
Your emotions are yours. You have them for a reason.
That doesn't give you the right to use them to hurt others, but you're allowed to feel.
I wish younger me understood that.